Saxophones & Honey in the Sun

No Dating

I don’t want to date you. Don’t take it personal. It’s just my belief. I feel that going on a date brings about all these expectations that pretty much complicate everything. In a way, people are forced to feel feelings that maybe aren’t really there. No one wants to experience a bad date, so they “try” to make something that probably won’t be there for a long time. My thoughts are something along the lines of this: get to know someone, become friends, get to know them some more, and if there are romantic feelings awesome. If not, then hey you have a new friend. I like to have that foundation. Once your friendship blossoms into something more then you get a relationship. Isn’t that how it should be? There’s not that rushed feeling or those second guessing questions - are we moving too fast? Should we move on to the next step? Blah blah. Once you know someone, you will know those answers (most of the time) and it won’t be that hard to answer. Most likely, you guys will be comfortable enough with each other to ask those questions if you don’t know the answer. Friends first. Always.

Socks